Resistance

Resistance is what changes us. As the saying goes, if it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you. Challenges are a type of resistance. A resistance workout challenges our muscles. The greater the weight, the greater the resistance, the more our muscles are changed by overcoming the resistance. That’s one type of challenge. Another is lowering the weight but increasing the number of repetitions. These challenges are fundamentally different so one might assume that the muscle was changed in fundamentally different ways. While there are slight differences, there were no statistically significant differences in the changes to the muscle in the studies I found.

Work done equals force multiplied by distance. If you are using proper form and your full range of motion, workouts can be designed to have, for all practical purposes, the same amount of work done at 40-60% and 80-90% of your one rep max. But, here’s the thing. It takes more than twice as long to do a workout of 4 sets of 20-24 reps to fatigue at 40-60% of your one rep max compared to 3 sets of 5 reps to voluntary failure at 80-90% of your one rep max.

Power is different. Power equals work done divided by time taken. So more power is applied in the workout using 80-90% of your one rep max because it takes less time. So, why the physics lessons? Because power is measured in joules and 4.184 Kilojoules equals 1 Kilocalorie. Therefore, in a 44 gram (1.56 ounce) Snickers bar there are 215 “calories.” Really that means there are 215 Kcals or 215,000 calories. Another way to look at it is to say that there is is enough energy in a Snickers bar to raise the temperature of 215 liters by 1 degree Celsius. If you don’t use it. The energy is stored as fat. You would have to create 899.56 Kilojoules of power to burn the Kilocalories from that Snickers bar. That is a lot of effort.

Think about this idea of resistance. Changing a habit takes effort and work because the habit resists change. Overcoming the habit presents a challenge. If it doesn’t challenge us, it doesn’t change us. Or in this case, if we don’t challenge ineffective or destructive habits we don’t change.

Motivation, Momentum, A Momentary Lapse of Reason

When you go after your dreams, they might be so huge that they seem impossible to achieve. But we tend to fail to understand the power of compounding. What I mean is that we seriously overestimate what we can do in a day, week,month or even year, but severely underestimate what we can achieve in 3 years or 5 years. And I truly believe that if we continue to make small daily improvements, not only do we severely underestimate what we can achieve over the long term, we are barely able to conceive of what we can achieve in 10 years or more.

So we find what motivates us by identifying our passions. Then we break our dreams down into smaller chunks, mile markers if you will. Reaching those markers builds momentum. We are human though. We will get distracted, or even derailed. It happens. We will suffer a momentary lapse of reason and decide to give up. It happens. But you can start building momentum again just by hitting the next marker.

I am not a fan of running. I do enjoy hiking. I also really enjoy medals. So to help build momentum in logging miles as I prepare for the 500 Festival Mini Marathon, I have registered for a number of virtual 5K, 10K, and half-marathons. I have included links to a few of the sites I use. Feel free to join me on some of these runs. Feel free to add some of your motivational and momentum building strategies in the comments.

https://vr.redpodium.com/superb-owl-18?registrants.source=fbprshirtlastchance112

http://www.runmotivators.com/

https://virtualnerdruns.weebly.com/

https://www.facebook.com/events/2006992742913435/?ti=icl

http://www.indymini.com

Journaling: Do It, Do It Better, and How Not to Do It

Start your journaling journey today! Do you see it? I know you see it. But you may not want to consciously admit that you see it.

Can we agree that life is a journey? Can we agree that happiness is not a destination but also a journey? And, success too?

Journaling your journey is a means to record events, thoughts, and emotions. It offers an opportunity to return to a past moment and reflect on your recorded memories. Journaling is a means of recording progress. And that is what we want, right? To make progress. Don’t be that way. I could feel the cynicism, negativity, and sarcasm of your future selves reading this as I type it in the present. Trust the process!

Journaling is not just another task. Journaling as a means of recording what happened and how you felt about it is as essential as keeping a calendar/planner/schedule/appointment book. Btw, if you aren’t keeping a calendar/planner/schedule/appointment book we need to talk about that too. Why not? Do you not care how you are going to be spending your time? You do realize that time is something we never get back, right? In the wise words of Katy Perry (Don’t scoff.), “…I only got this life, and I ain’t got the time, no, not to get it right…” from the song Witness. Or if Katy isn’t to your liking, how about Pink Floyd? These are lyrics from Time, “Ticking away the moments that make up a dull day, you fritter and waste the hours in an offhand way…You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today, and then one day you find ten years have got behind you. No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun…” I am telling you that you have only one life, you have to get it right; you do not have time to kill today; now is your time to run; if you think you missed your starting gun, I just fired it for you. “Run, Forest! Run!”

Seriously, if you take some time to plan your year, month, week, and day, you will find a lot more time to utilize. Take time to journal too. If you haven’t journaled before, you may find ten minutes seems like an eternity and you only have a couple of sentences to show for it. Conversely, you may find that you have barely gotten started at ten minutes and you have written two pages. Journaling, like everything you focus on in your life, will become refined and produce better results. You will write more or less as you come to understand what events, thoughts, and emotions should be recorded because just as a couple of sentences are probably not sufficient to sum up your day, neither are several pages generally efficient to reflect upon – though there are occasionally life defining days that may require a couple of pages; maybe the death of a loved one, the birth of a loved one, a marriage, a shift in your ideas, etc.

I blog, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram nearly every day. While these are a kind of journaling, they are not what this blog is about. I am talking about private journaling, where you can be completely raw and honest with yourself. If you haven’t read all of my posts here, you will have missed the occasions where I talk about our prodigious ability to lie to ourselves. We are masters at lying to ourselves. Don’t believe me? Google the Dunning-Kruger Effect. Everyone has lied to themselves and most people are still lying to themselves. In my case, I know it is easier to lie to myself than to tell myself the truth. Why? The truth will set you free, but not until it has pissed you off. I am paraphrasing Orrin Woodward. I think he says something like, the truth will set you free, but not until it has made you mad. It is about comfort. I lie to myself so I don’t feel uncomfortable. If I feel uncomfortable, I’ll have to change. Who wants to change? Well, me now and you do too! I know because you have read this far. If you didn’t want to change, you’d have left this post already!

Alright, we have agreed that we are going to journal because it is a means of measuring progress. I have some specific areas I want to measure. Curiously (not really), these areas coincide with the eight Fs of Life Leadership – Faith, Family, Finances, Fitness, Following, Freedom, Friends, and Fun. I do not journal about each area every day, nor do I keep eight separate journals. I do keep 3 separate journals though. I specifically keep a Faith journal and a Fitness journal, then I keep another journal to record events, thoughts, and emotions in the other 6 areas. Sometimes my journals have overlap when an event encompasses more than one area, and not every area is journaled about everyday.

So we are journaling, that’s the Do It! The longer we do it, the better we will do it. So journal every day. Be raw and honest with yourself. Don’t be H.P. Lovecraft level vague. But don’t be Anne Rice level detailed either. The longer you do it, the more like Goldilocks you will become. Start with one journal, that may be all you ever need. But, you may come to find separate journals work better for you in some areas.

We now have Do It and Do It Better covered. Now, this is important! How Not to Do It! Do not spend too much time dwelling on negative events, thoughts, or emotions. The key here is too much time. Do not lie to yourself! A trap that we can fall into is ranting in our journals. Journals are not a place for ranting. Therapy is a place for ranting. We fall into this trap because we lie to ourselves. We start to journal about a negative event and then to justify our negative emotions and to convince ourselves of our innocence we end up lying. We over exaggerate the “harm” done to us, the “guilt” of others, and our “innocence.” We do this to make ourselves feel better, but what it actually does is makes us feel worse about the others involved than we should. Be honest, no one is completely at fault or completely innocent. It is part of the human condition, we do, in fact, contribute to the bad things that happen to us, we are never 100% blameless. We might very well be mostly blameless in a given event, but mostly still means we had a part to play in it. Sometimes, at the other end of the spectrum, because we occasionally like to play the martyr, we accept all the blame, that is no less unhealthy. So, again, be honest!

If you are interested in seeing the specifics of scientific studies on the benefits of journaling both for mental and physical health, all you have to do is Google “studies on the benefits of journaling” and you will have a plethora of choices to read from. It is my experience that when I journal, I move forward, and when I don’t, I don’t. Happy journaling!

Two days ago was the day? Yesterday was the day? Today is the day!

First, I am sorry this is posting a day late. Second, I have permission to share the following. Third, thanks for coming back!

I have two dear friends who will be getting married in October. I am training them. In fact, you will eventually see some video footage of our sessions. Tonight (Thursday) was just our second session together, but they each have a workout schedule to workout six days a week. They have been honest with me about not having worked out every night, but the workouts are becoming more regular. Momentum is hard to build and easy to destroy. Trust me, at a point in my not so distance past my nickname could have been momentum killer. But these days I am all about building momentum.

Even if your momentum is on life-support, you can do it! You can chase down your dreams; you can live them! I believe it and so should you!

So, let’s call one of my friends Natalie, because that is her name and I have her permission. She is in her mid-twenties. She was a swimmer in high school. She stands a lot in her job, but it still wouldn’t qualify as an active position. So she isn’t in bad shape, but she has been in better shape.

Natalie sent me a text early in the day, telling me that she was unable to use her right foot to its fullest because of an issue she has been having. She was concerned that she wouldn’t be able to do the workout.

I, not wanting to kill momentum, offered an alternative workout that would focus on her back, shoulders, and abs. Her response was, “Game on!” I thought, “Hell yeah! That’s what I’m talking about!”

Since standing would affect her form on every exercise, I had her sit on a yoga ball (aka a Swiss ball or just an exercise ball). If you have ever sat on a yoga ball you know that you have to engage your core, if you don’t, you’ll lose your balance and roll off. We used two cans of clam chowder from their pantry as her weights. The workouts I currently have them doing are body weight exercises so while they have some free weights, they weren’t readily available. So, this was being improvisational at its best. Remember, it doesn’t have to be pretty or conventional to be effective.

I had her do various exercises to work her trapezius, rhomboid, deltoid, latissimus dorsi, pectoral muscles, etc. Right now the exercises are not the point – they will be, just not today. The point is that I was working her hard, high reps due to the low weight with holds & pulses to keep her mind-body connection engaged. At some point in the middle of the workout, Natalie teared up; literally shed a few tears. Before you start yelling at me for making this wonderful woman cry, I noticed that something was up before the first tear. I asked if she was alright, if she had experienced an acute pain. I wasn’t yelling at her, I didn’t ask her to do anything I didn’t think she was capable of handling. And she had handled all of the exercises fairly well to that point.

All of that leads to this. Natalie took a second. Composed herself. Then we went right back to the workout. Nothing is going to stop Natalie from achieving her dream. Not even Goldfish or Jimmy John’s 😉. How do I know?

She could have said it is too big a sacrifice or burden, too much effort, too painful, or too whatever as an excuse to quit the whole thing. She could have even just quit for the night. Neither happened. A foot problem, an emotional response, it didn’t matter. Natalie was going to finish the workout. She’s going to workout tonight through Tuesday. She’ll take Wednesday off. Then we will start all over again on Thursday. Natalie’s dream is big enough that she can see it over the obstacles in front of her. Your dreams need to be that big too. If you cannot see your dream over the obstacles in front of you, then your dream isn’t yet big enough. Do I need to retype that or can I just ask you to reread the last three sentences? Make sure your dream is big enough, then the obstacles won’t matter!

After the workout, Natalie said that she did not know why she began to cry. While I don’t know if these thoughts are true for Natalie, they were true for me. It is a moment filled with powerful emotions when one realizes that you have what it takes to make your dream come true, that in spite of the disappointment of where you have allowed yourself to fall, you have the strength, determination, and belief to get to where you want to go. So there is a mixture of anger, hope, and even love for self that need a release. All of that equals a few tears.

You are worth it. Achieving your fine is worth it. My vision for this blog has many layers, one of those layers is that this is a place to build community; that we come together and share our dreams, our successes, our struggles; that we uplift one another.

Matthew Kelly writes in his book The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved,

A successful relationship is built when two people are striving to become the best version of themselves, challenging and encouraging each to become the best version of themselves, and inspiring others to pursue their essential purpose by the example of their lives and their love.

Let that be a description of the community that we build here and in our daily lives.

The first 24 days

On October 23rd, I began my first 24-day Jumpstart in preparation for my trip to Vietnam and South Korea. I started at 269.4 pounds and ended at 244.8 pounds. I lost 24.6 pounds in 24-days! I followed the program and had enormous success. I felt so much better while on my trip than I had been feeling – emotionally and physically.

I went on the trip and ate what I wanted, when I wanted, as much as I wanted. I gained 1 pound in the 10 days I was gone. Upon returning home I began a regimen to maintain my weight loss until the holidays. The Last week or so of December is treacherous for me: Christmas parties, Christmas Eve dinner, Christmas dinner, my birthday celebration, one of my best friend’s birthday, New Year’s Eve, and New Year’s Day. I came out of the gauntlet a little heavier.

Not too bad though. That was my weight as of January 9th. Yesterday also happens to be the day I began my 2nd run through the first phase of Advocare’s One/80 program, the 24-day Jumpstart. I don’t expect the same dramatic weight loss as the first time. I do expect measurable results though. Stay tuned. Join me if you want. I would appreciate the company.

http://www.advocare.com/17103535

I know these first 2 posts in the relaunch may seem like an extended Advocare commercial. And to a degree they have been. I just don’t want you to miss the amazing opportunity to win $$$$$ by turning your life around with the Advocare One/80 program.

Today Is The Day!

Welcome to the relaunch!

Really quickly, hopefully you know that I am Michael Dotson. I have been a personal trainer for nearly 7 years. I have been a Life Leadership business owner for nearly 3 years, and for 3 months now I have been an Advocare business owner. While I have had this blog for 7 years, it only recently occurred to me to marry these endeavors. For those who do not follow the FromFat2Fine Facebook page, yesterday I posted a meme : First comes the mistake, then comes some kind of insight. So, I apologize for being a little slow to offer this to you.

It is really sad that FromFat2Fine is something of an alliteration using the letter F and Life Leadership focuses on improving life in the areas of the 8 Fs: Faith, Family, Friendship, Finances, Freedom , Fitness, Fun, Following (Leadership), yet, I am only now putting it together. At least I did finally figure out that I should bring it all together here. Insights. It is true.

Let’s talk about “fat” for a moment. I do mean literal body fat. Both in the obvious fat equals overweight and obese. But I also mean the less obvious “overfat” which is a symptom of inactivity. One may not be overweight or obese according to the BMI scale but still have an unhealthy lean mass to body fat ratio. So while you may appear healthy in the overfat scenario, you aren’t. Understanding that helps bridge the gap between the literal fat and the figurative fat. The figurative fat might manifest itself in unhealthy family relationships or friendships, in overspending, in ignoring self-development, or other area where you may appear or even think you are healthy but upon real examination you find that you have work to do. For the record, I have a lot of work to do in every area. Except maybe fun – I know how to have a good time. Nope. I have work to do there as well. The truth is I know how to have too much fun (frequency, not amplitude – okay! amplitude too). Thus, “fat” applies to every area of life.

What about “fine?” As in, I look FINE. 😂😂😂 Well, that is one way to define it, I suppose. Seriously, that is the way I want the connotation to be received; fine meaning noteworthy, extraordinary, or phenomenal. I cannot define what your fine looks like for you, but I can tell you this, if your vision of fine doesn’t challenge you, it won’t be enough to change you.

I will seek to periodically address each of the 8 Fs in this blog because I want us to be the best we can be. There will be a primary focus on fitness though, at least for now. I am going to include links to my websites and the Facebook page so that if there is something you need to focus on more than what is happening in the blog, we can talk outside of the blog and I can help you get the information, product, or instruction that you need.

Also, this blog, like me, is a work in progress. It will evolve and grow just as I evolve and grow. Remember, if you ain’t growin’, you’re dyin’. So things will change.

Let me close today by letting you know about a phenomenal opportunity! Advocare has just launched its new One/80 program. It is one program, 80 days long, that is designed to help you turn your life around (One/80 = 180°). If you commit to the program before January 16th, you can enter a contest where a third party company will determine the top 3 life transformations. It is not only based on weight loss, but on the totality of how you have changed your life. The top prize is $25,000! Second place gets $10,000! And third gets $5,000! Furthermore, if you commit, I will give you a one hour consultation as a personal trainer for free to kick start your work out program during the 80 days!

Here is where you need to go:

http://www.advocare.com/17103535

My other links:

For general Life Leadership information:

http://61442411.mainhomepage.com/main.aspx

For specific information on our Financial Fitness:

http://61442411.financialfitnessinfo.com/ff.aspx

For information on our Financial Fitness Services:

http://61442411.financialfitnessinfo.com/FFS

For information on our Total Personal Development program:

http://61442411.tpdinfo.com

For information on the Launching a Leadership Revolution Corporate material:

http://61442411.llrcinfo.com

To subscribe to stream our audio material through Rascal Radio 3.0 (This is my absolute favorite way to learn because it takes No Extra Time!) :

http://61442411.rascal-radio.com

If you are in your 20s or if you have teens this is perfect for them (or if you are like me and still behave like you are in your 20s), the Edge series is excellent:

http://61442411.edgeinfopage.com

For those who are interested in personal study to deepen their Christian Faith, we have All Grace Outreach:

http://61442411.agoinfopage.com

And for more information on exercising personal freedom and the history of our personal freedom:

http://61442411.freedominfopage.com

And to find the Facebook page just paste @FromFat2Fine

A New Day

 

On January 8, 2011 I began blogging on fromfat2fine.wordpress.com
I lost my way, lost my vision, lost my purpose. I lost my “fine.” Starting tomorrow, my blog begins anew with a refined vision, renewed purpose, a new journey to reclaim my fine, and to help you find yours!